Do you want to know how to live your life?
Do you want to know how to be happy?
That depends, you say. Does the answer involve Richard Simmons workout videos?
Of course not. All you have to do is be like Son Number Three.
He’s ten now, but back when he was five years old, he got himself a new hat. It was not an expensive hat, but he loved it. The morning he got it, he immediately asked if he could wear it to kindergarten that day.
“Are you sure you want to wear it to school?” I asked.
“Yes!” was his emphatic reply. “I love it!”
So, off we went down the path to school. When we reached campus, his two older brothers quickly scattered into the crowds on the blacktop, and I walked Number Three, hand-in-hand, over to the separate kindergarten playground.
Kids and teachers were stopping and smiling as we walked through the hallways, and Number Three was just beaming away.
On the way across campus, two teachers commented, “Wow! Nice hat.”
As we reached the kindergarten playground, my five-year-old son looked up at me, with his radiant smile, and said, “Two people already noticed my new hat.”
“Yep,” I said, as I squatted down and kissed him on the cheek. “They sure did. Have a great day at school, buddy. I love you.”
He yelled, “I love you too, Dad,” over his shoulder, as he sprinted across the blacktop toward the play structure, the picture of joyful, innocent happiness.
“Of course they noticed your hat, Son,” I said quietly to myself. “You’re wearing a lime green and purple cardboard Gogurt box on your head.”
Did Son Number Three care that he looked like a miniature Abe Lincoln mental patient? Of course not. He thought it was cool, so he rocked it.
That’s it, folks. That’s the key to happiness. It’s just that simple.
Stop worrying about what other people might think of your great ideas. Stop concerning yourself with anyone else’s definition of cool.
Rock your own style.
Simply be yourself.
Now, slap that empty Rice Krispies box on your head and go enjoy your day!
See you soon,
Copyright © 2019 Marc Schmatjen
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